Divorce | My Good Decisions Hypnosis & Training

Divorce

Are you finding it difficult to cope with a relationship break up or a divorce? Do you find yourself constantly dwelling on the failed relationship? Do you feel overwhelmed with feelings of betrayal, insecurity, loneliness, stress, rejection, resentment or anger? Are your feelings about the break up or divorce preventing you from moving ahead in your life?

Can you hypnotize me to forget about someone?

One of the more common requests we get from clients experiencing overwhelming negative feelings after a break up or divorce is whether they can use hypnotherapy to help them forget the person who caused them to feel hurt, or to forget the painful memories. However, hypnotherapy is not used to erase memories (that would be akin to brainwashing). Instead, hypnotherapy is used to help heal from the emotional trauma and stress caused by the failed relationship.

Why Do Break Up and Divorce Hurt So Bad?

It is no easy task coping with a relationship break up or a divorce. We invest a lot of our time, energies and emotions into our romantic relationships, building on hopes and dreams for a shared future. When the relationship ends, we can experience a profound sense of loss, grief, disappointment and sadness. Even when there are logical reasons to move away from an unhealthy relationship, the many unknowns (for example: what will life be like without my familiar partner, or will I find love again, or will I be alone forever) that stem from the break up can be emotionally exhausting, and even devastating.

Here are some common symptoms that can be related to unresolved pain or grief due to a failed relationship:

Feeling Emotionally Detached or Numb
Habitual Replaying of Past Conversations or Memories
Debilitating Fear of Getting Hurt Again
Obsession with the Lost Lover
Grief that Has Not Healed
Anger that Doesn’t Dissipate or Transfers to Other People in Your Life
Problems with Forgiveness
Victim Mentality
Sleep Disturbances or Stressful Dreams Related to the Break-Up
Headaches and Other Physical Problems
Post Traumatic Stress
Manifestation or Worsening of Addictions to Numb Emotional Loss and Pain
Hopelessness or Deep Sadness
Feel Like a Part of You is Dead or Gone

What are the effects of divorce on children?

Not during their childhood, adolescence or young adult phase. They expect to fail and they fear loss, change and conflict. Other know effects of divorce on children are adjustment and behavioral problems resulting from the divorced parents that are stress during longer periods and from interrupted routines.

Do divorced parents affect a child's behavior?

Effects of Divorce on Children's Behavior. ... Other studies have confirmed that children of divorced parents exhibit more behavioral problems than do children from intact families. Boys whose parents divorced while they were in elementary school tend to develop problems in the years following their parents' separation.

How does parental separation affect a child's development?

Short-term impact of separation and divorce on children. In the short-term, parental separation and divorce leaves children struggling emotionally. Anger and sadness are normal, regardless of your child's age - even if they are adults! Sadness can lead to isolation, loneliness, and social difficulties

How can hypnotherapy help all the family (Parents and kids)?

For some, the constant dwelling on a failed relationship can even spiral into deep sadness. If you find yourself in such a situation, it might be time to do something about it.

Helping a Break Up or Divorce with Hypnosis

Hypnosis is a great tool to deal with the negative emotions stemming from a breakup or divorce. Hypnosis is most useful: